Sex
should be fun! And now it is YOUR
turn.
Your
partner should be anxious to repeat the previous session. After all,
it was all about HIS pleasure. And he DID enjoy it! If he has not,
yet, agreed to allow you total control over your sex-lives, then hold
out. Simply tell him that until he agrees to your request to be in
charge, he is going to get nothing. As a reminder, ask him if he enjoyed
what you did to him the last time. Does he want to experience that
kind of thing again? If so, he needs to agree to put you in charge.
I
doubt he will fight you on this, but if he does, hold out for awhile.
If more than a couple of weeks goes by without any sexual encounters,
you can simply repeat the last one with one minor change... Bind his
hands. This is important. You can bind them to the headboard, to each
other, or run a rope under that mattress and bind one hand to each
end. Now, when you repeat the last session with his arms immobilized,
he will not be able to finish himself off. Thus, he, and his
ejaculation, are at your mercy.
