Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Teasing with Tenga

I know I have talked about this before, but I feel it bares repeating. Not only that, but there are always new ways of doing things. I am always looking for new and different ways of teasing my husband (and his cock) sexually. Maybe because I find it to be so much fun. Or maybe because I don't want to get bored with doing the same old thing all the time. So here is something I have found that I think works really well.

There are a large number of chastity enthusiasts who enjoy a little humiliation along with their chastity. Just having your subbie/hubbie stand in front of you and masturbate can be a very humbling experience for most men. This is one time I don't recommend a blindfold. He should be able to see you watching him do his own thing.

Masturbation is a very personal, and often private, thing, especially to a man. He might admit that he does it. He might even admit what type of porn he uses to do it. But to have someone actually watch him do it, especially if she is giving him orders, can be quite humiliating and very erotic at the same time.

There is one item that I think really adds to any tease and denial session as well as to any masturbation sessions you might have you man perform for you, and that is the Tenga Egg. For those of you are unfamiliar with this particular product, I have included a video below.

By using one of these eggs on your man's cock, you can give him quite a ride. You can twist it, pull it down and guide it back up until he is ready to shoot his load, then stop. Allow him ample time to rest before continuing. The best part of all, should he ejaculate without your permission, you can continue playing with the egg and it will drive him mad! A little bit of Post Orgasm Torment, if you will. Of course, it is also a great idea to use one if you are trying for a second, or even third, orgasm of the day. He will achieve it much more quickly if you use a Tenga Egg for those second and/or third orgasms.

If you are making him masturbate for you as a humiliation or punishment, a Tenga Egg can be so much more humiliating than just his own hand. He will, of course, have to stop on command. You don't want him pushing himself over the edge, now do you?

Anyway, give humiliating him through masturbation some thought if you haven't already. Then consider finding new and different ways of making him do it for you. If he has to do it too often, or always in the same way, he will become too used to it and it will no longer be humiliating. We don't want that, now do we?

Mistress Ivey

Monday, September 3, 2012

Role Play

There is one area of chastity play that I have left out in my blog. That's because most people who get involved in chastity play (or reality) don't often us it, and that's a shame. It's called Role Play.

It is up to the Mistress (or whatever you call yourself) to control all the teasing that goes on with you and your chaste partner. However, coming up with new and exciting ways of doing it can be a daunting task. I mean, you can bind him, remove his chastity device, and tease him in any way you like, but doing the same thing each time can, eventually, become boring. Just as with any other kind of sex, variety is the spice of life. But figuring out new and different ways of teasing a man's cock can be a difficult at best. If you do the same thing (or even several things) too often, then some of the fun and excitement will become routine. And that's no good!

Role play adds a whole new aspect to the world of tease and denial. For example; You could pretend to be a mall cop and you have apprehended a shoplifter (your partner). You can bind him, you can make him undress, you can even remove his chastity device if you like (but it's not necessary). Then you can do anything you like, such as masturbate in front of him, have him do it for you, or even allow him to please you orally if you like. How the story unfolds can be different every time you play. The point is, you have just added a bit of variety to your teasing that will be much appreciated by the both of you.

Another popular scenario is the cop and the fugitive. Suppose you have to interrogate a suspect in an robbery. Perhaps you want to know the location of the loot he stole. You can do anything you like to your prisoner to get the information out of him. In the end, you give him an orgasm (ruined or otherwise) for giving up the information. Or, you could keep him on the edge as long as you like if you are not happy with the information he is giving you.

Another popular role play scenario is Doctor/patient (or nurse/patient) as the case may be. Of course you would play the role of the Doctor or nurse while your chaste partner becomes your patient. Here, again, there are any number of things you can do ranging from a physical exam (very in-depth) to prostate milking, or anything in between.

Without going into a long list of scenes you can use for your role playing, I'll leave it to your own imagination, or you can research it on the net. It's up to you. But by adding role play to your repertoire of teasing methods, you have a million new ways to tease and add excitement to your sexual experience.