The Doll

I have written about using humiliation as a way of sexually teasing your sub to heighten both his sexual excitement and your own pleasure. Of course, there are many ways of humiliating any man (sexually) but if you into using humiliation as a means of asserting your control, ow just because you both love it, you will want to find something that works for you both.

Every man is different (duh), so you need find out exactly what works best on yours. Here's a suggestion that will work on most men regardless of who they are. I once tried this on a sub (I no longer have) and really enjoyed the experience. Now, I can't swear that this will work for you, but it can be a great deal of fun finding out. This particular method is always best when done as a total surprise to him. Odds are, he will be totally humiliated and you will both get a great deal out of the experience.

Buy yourself an inflatable doll. You know the type, you have seen them in the adult stores, both online and real stores. They are often given as a joke at bachelor and bachelorette parties, birthday parties etc. Who knows, your guy may have actually used one before. Be sure to get a fairly inexpensive one. The reason for this is that you don't want it to look to realistic. After all, it will be more humiliating the cheaper it looks. Make sure it has all the best features. You know, “Greek” and “French” features as well as “natural Missionary” features (3 holes). Now you could spend upward of $700 for a a life-like pose-able doll, but I recommend you spend under $30 for something really humiliating.

Once you have your doll, you can do any number of things with it. Here are a few suggestions:

• Teach him to treat his “Mistress” right by sexually satisfying her while you watch. Make him use her mouth, her anus, and her “pussy” as per your instructions.
• Teach him to properly clean up after himself (orally).
• Take him and his doll to a group meeting and make him demonstrate different methods sexually pleasing her.
• Take a video of him performing with his doll and upload it to one of the many adult video sights on the web.

As you will probably learn, once you start searching for the “right” doll, there are also male dolls as well as transvestite dolls. You can use any of these depending what you want to teach your man or what kind of humiliation you wish to inflict upon him.

The fun you can have with this are unlimited. Use your imagination and see what kinds of things you can come up with. Don't forget to have fun with it. After all, that's whole point, isn't it? Send me an email or make a comment here once you have tried it and let me know how it went.

Mistress Ivey